So as I reflect on me in a relationship years ago versus now, I see the major difference is my level of differentiation. For instance, Seth, yesterday, had a major blow up (not at me) related to him not expressing his feelings. I was calm. I told him I was there to talk when and if he was ready. And I left him alone. I didn't keep pressing. I didn't badger. I didn't cry.
And guess what, he took care of the situation and figured it out with me supporting but not leading. I love it. He's the man that was meant for me and with the right timing, I am the right woman for him. My hat is off to this man. He has taught me to differentiate and self soothe like I had never been able to do in the past.
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